Simon MacCorkindale
in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Simon MacCorkindale rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often MacCorkindale's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". MacCorkindale may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Simon difficult to live with. Simon MacCorkindale needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Simon MacCorkindale often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when MacCorkindale thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Simon is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Simon MacCorkindale has good psychological insight into others.
MacCorkindale is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Simon MacCorkindale needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Simon MacCorkindale also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Simon MacCorkindale feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst, MacCorkindale can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Simon's emotional indulgence - MacCorkindale tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.
His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Simon MacCorkindale does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. MacCorkindale tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and his relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Simon MacCorkindale enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.
His thinking is dictated by his feelings and MacCorkindale may rely on his intuitions and impressions rather than practical means. His advice may often be sought and heeded, because Simon MacCorkindale seems to know and understand what motivates others.
He is very ambitious and his energy is based on his feelings. Simon MacCorkindale may feel that he has to assert himself regardless of the risks that may be involved. Simon could have considerable tension with others and is not likely to compromise.
His emotional life tends to be a bit strange and he is likely to fantasize a lot and to weave a web of illusions. Easily swayed by the needs of others, Simon MacCorkindale must learn not to take on others problems and also guard against others deceiving him.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Simon MacCorkindale cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from MacCorkindale's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Simon at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Simon MacCorkindale is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
Simon MacCorkindale may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Simon desires.
When he cares about someone, Simon MacCorkindale likes to show his affection with small favors or tangible gestures.
Simon MacCorkindale also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Simon is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.
He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Simon MacCorkindale rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Simon is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though MacCorkindale craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Simon MacCorkindale needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.
Simon MacCorkindale has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Simon frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, MacCorkindale can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of MacCorkindale's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Simon MacCorkindale to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, MacCorkindale may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Simon MacCorkindale will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Quincunx Jupiter
Moon Sextile Uranus
Moon Opposition Mercury/MC
Moon Conjunct Mars/Uranus
Moon Conjunct Neptune/Asc.
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 6th house
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Quincunx Pluto
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