Silvia Pfeifer
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Silvia Pfeifer has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Pfeifer is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.

Silvia Pfeifer seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Pfeifer tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Silvia's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Silvia Pfeifer substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Silvia Pfeifer a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Silvia's past are especially dear to her.

Silvia Pfeifer may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

Silvia Pfeifer craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, she may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Silvia Pfeifer to make or keep commitments, since she does not know how she will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Pfeifer. Her domestic life may be very unstable - but Pfeifer likes it that way.

Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Silvia Pfeifer flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Silvia Pfeifer feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Silvia Pfeifer to learn. Silvia Pfeifer should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

She is hard-working and tends to work till she collapses. Forceful and aggressive, Silvia Pfeifer comes on strong and has a tendency to be abusive when frustrated. Pfeifer must learn to relax in order to avoid suffering total emotional or physical exhaustion.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Silvia Pfeifer values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Silvia desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Pfeifer, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Silvia Pfeifer appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Pfeifer is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Silvia Pfeifer thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Silvia Pfeifer shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Silvia's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Silvia Pfeifer also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Silvia likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.

Silvia Pfeifer has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Silvia frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Pfeifer can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Pfeifer's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.

She is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Silvia Pfeifer to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Pfeifer may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Silvia Pfeifer will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of her (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Opposition Mars/Pluto

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 11th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Quincunx Pluto