Sidney Webb in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Sidney Webb denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Sidney Webb needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Sidney Webb also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Sidney Webb often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Webb thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Sidney is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Sidney Webb has good psychological insight into others.
He needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Sidney Webb is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Sidney has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make him cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Sidney - one that can be enormously satisfying if he can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if he cannot.
Gregarious and fun loving, he is always out to have a good time. Sidney Webb tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo, and even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for Sidney Webb to say no, especially when Webb's emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, he is likely to be very free both with money and with affection.
Sidney Webb tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Sidney Webb can create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Sidney also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Sidney Webb craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.
He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Sidney Webb insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.
Sidney Webb has a good-natured disposition and an affectionate and cordial manner. Charming, optimistic and outgoing, he is warm and friendly to everyone he meets. Webb is at peace with the world and want to share his feelings with his friends and acquaintances.
In a love relationship, Sidney Webb is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Sidney likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Sidney Webb becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Sidney Webb's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Sidney Webb needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Webb finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Sidney is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Webb places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Also, Sidney Webb feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Sidney Webb has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Sidney frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Webb can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Webb's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
His erotic nature is strong and Sidney Webb is likely to have a lot of romantic relationships. Very unconventional, he may have many unorthodox contacts. Sidney has much zest for life, likes his freedom and finds it difficult to settle down.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Opposition Venus
Moon Opposition Jupiter
Moon Quincunx Uranus
Moon Trine Pluto
Moon Opposition Venus/Jupiter
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mars/Uranus
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