Shirley Jones
in Relationships

Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Shirley Jones is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Shirley Jones is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.

Jones depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Shirley's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Shirley Jones may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Shirley Jones takes offense rather quickly and her instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. She has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When she is not actively involved, she is not comfortable. Shirley Jones actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Shirley Jones also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.

She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Shirley Jones expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Shirley Jones values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Shirley desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Jones, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Shirley Jones appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Shirley Jones often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Shirley. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Shirley Jones may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Shirley Jones - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.

Intimacy does not come easily to Shirley Jones and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Jones does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Shirley Jones needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

When it comes to love relationships, Jones is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Shirley Jones has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Shirley acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

She needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Shirley, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Shirley Jones tends to surround herself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep her life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Jones' life.

She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Shirley Jones to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Jones may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Shirley Jones will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

She is quickly aroused and likes to play with fire. A bit of a Don Juan, Shirley Jones seeks adventures in love relationships, but tends to be somewhat promiscuous. Jones tends to lead a modern way of life; her style of clothes as well as general life style.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 7th house

Moon Opposition Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 12th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Sextile Uranus

Venus Quincunx Pluto

Venus Conjunct Uranus/MC