Selma Blair
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Selma Blair only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Blair.

Selma has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Selma Blair has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Selma Blair to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Selma Blair has a great deal of emotional depth.

Selma Blair often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Blair thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Selma is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Selma Blair has good psychological insight into others.

She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Selma Blair cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Blair's motto.

Although Selma Blair was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Selma's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

She is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Selma Blair often retreats into her own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, she will not fight or assert herself, even when she needs to. Selma Blair is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

Selma has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people she cares about. Her relationships to her mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in her life are apt to be incredibly close and intense. Selma Blair may be easily manipulated too, when it comes to one of these important relationships, because she is so emotionally invested in it.

Her emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Blair may feel inhibited when she is with others. Selma Blair is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.

In a love relationship, Selma Blair is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Selma likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Selma Blair becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Selma Blair's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Selma Blair needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Blair finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Selma is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Blair places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Selma Blair feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Selma Blair tends to suppress her feelings and she approaches other people with great reserve. She may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between her and others. But once Selma Blair enters a relationship, she will be faithful and steady in her feelings for her partner.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Moon Conjunct Pluto/N. Node

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn