Sela Ward
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Sela Ward rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Ward's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Ward may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Sela difficult to live with. Sela Ward needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Ward gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Sela Ward makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Sela Ward needs close relationships with people outside of her physical family.

Her feelings depend on the conditions in her environment and therefore Sela Ward could be subject to moods. She is likely to have spiritual or life experiences that touch her deeply. Sela Ward could also become involved in situations where others take advantage of her.

She is inclined to identify duty and happiness with each other. Self-disciplined and realistic, Sela Ward expects very little. Once she has found her mate, Sela Ward will be faithful, self-sacrificing and strongly attached to her partner.

Sela Ward responds to her environment in a highly emotional way and encounters with other people can get her excited easily. Her mood tends to change quickly, though, depending on the response Sela receives from others.

Sela Ward seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Sela likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. She is guided by her feelings and seems to live in a world of her own.

In a love relationship, Sela Ward is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Sela likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Sela Ward becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Sela Ward's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Sela Ward needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Ward finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Sela is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Ward places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Sela Ward feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Sela Ward puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Sela Ward and she is not happy without a love partner. Ward can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 11th house

Moon Conjunct Sun/Neptune

Moon Conjunct Venus/Saturn

Moon Conjunct Uranus/Asc.

Moon Conjunct Neptune/MC

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Mars