Scott Carpenter
in Relationships
Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Scott Carpenter inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Scott wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Carpenter lavishes on those he cares about. Scott Carpenter has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Scott Carpenter hates emotional games and dishonesty.
Scott Carpenter often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Carpenter thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Scott is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Scott Carpenter has good psychological insight into others.
Scott has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Carpenter cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
Scott Carpenter often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Carpenter actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Scott Carpenter to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Scott Carpenter becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Carpenter can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Scott Carpenter often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Scott Carpenter is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Scott Carpenter seems to have the wrong conception of the world around him and may suffer disappointments frequently. It is difficult for Scott to adapt himself and to acquire a community spirit, and he cannot achieve the inner understanding with others that he longs for.
In love relationships, Scott Carpenter is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Scott enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Scott Carpenter responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.
Scott Carpenter often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Scott. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Scott Carpenter may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Scott Carpenter - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Scott Carpenter and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Scott allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Scott Carpenter, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
His romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with him. Oftentimes Scott Carpenter is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that he has very little choice or control over his powerful feelings.
He may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive himself. Scott Carpenter should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for he could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Scott tries to understand others completely and has the ability to feel their joy with them and also to suffer with them. When Scott Carpenter loves someone, he loves with his whole heart and is inclined to reveal his most inner and private feelings.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Leo
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Square Saturn
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Conjunct Neptune/N. Node
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 12th house
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Sextile Pluto
Venus Conjunct N. Node/MC
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