Sally Blane
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Sally Blane rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Blane's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Blane may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Sally difficult to live with. Sally Blane needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Sally Blane often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Blane thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Sally is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Sally Blane has good psychological insight into others.

Sally has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Blane cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Sally Blane tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Sally to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Sally Blane may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

In a love relationship, Sally Blane is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Sally likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Sally Blane becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Sally Blane's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Sally Blane needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Blane finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Blane is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Sally Blane thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Sally Blane has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well-being. It is rare for Sally to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Blane. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Sally Blane to channel her passion.

She is inclined to do everything with love and may even be in love with her profession. At times Sally Blane is apt to consider her work as a substitute for a partner, but she could also show some narcissistic tendencies.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Sextile Neptune

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 11th house

Venus Sextile Mars

Venus Conjunct Mars/MC