Ruth Westheimer
in Relationships

Open and generous, Ruth Westheimer enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Westheimer rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Ruth always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Ruth Westheimer often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Westheimer, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Ruth Westheimer to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Ruth's aspirations and ideals. Ruth Westheimer also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Westheimer depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Ruth's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Ruth Westheimer may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

Serious and emotionally reserved, Ruth Westheimer was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Ruth Westheimer feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Ruth's emotional well-being.

Ruth Westheimer has a good perception and feeling of beauty and may have a talent for painting or drawing. Ruth Westheimer has a magnetic charm and is refined and calm when she is with people. Ruth has the ability to win people over by what she says and how she says it.

Ruth Westheimer has a great interest in everything and everyone around her and is constantly looking for people with whom she can establish deep inner relationships. Her judgments are based on her personal feelings and she has a strong need to be with others.

She is highly sensitive to everyone around her and is subject to strange moods or feelings. Ruth Westheimer has a tendency to exaggerate and could have unrealistic ambitions that may be hard to realize. It would be wise for Westheimer to keep her expectations a bit lower.

In a love relationship, Ruth Westheimer is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Ruth likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Ruth Westheimer becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Ruth Westheimer's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Ruth Westheimer needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Westheimer finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Westheimer is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Ruth Westheimer is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Ruth uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Ruth Westheimer does.

She needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Ruth, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Ruth Westheimer tends to surround herself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep her life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Westheimer's life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 7th house

Moon Conjunct Saturn

Moon Opposition Mercury/Venus

Moon Opposition Mercury/Asc.

Moon Opposition Mars/Neptune

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 1st house

Venus Sextile Uranus