Roxie Roker
in Relationships

Roxie does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Roxie Roker would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Roxie Roker avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Roker. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

Roker depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Roxie's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Roxie Roker may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Roxie Roker expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

Her emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Roker may feel inhibited when she is with others. Roxie Roker is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.

Sensitive and sentimental, Roxie Roker is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Roker to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Roxie Roker seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Roxie likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Roxie is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Roker places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Also, Roxie Roker feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Roxie Roker tends to deprive herself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because she feels she does not deserve it or she thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Roker may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. She may also think of herself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close her heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like her. Roxie Roker is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and her shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept herself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Roxie believes she has - is so important for her. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

She is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and her relationships tend to be harmonious. Roxie Roker will probably marry for love and her mate will be a friend to her as well as a lover. The atmosphere in her family life is affectionate and protective.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 7th house

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Pluto/N. Node

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 9th house

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon