Ronnie Spector
in Relationships
Open and generous, Ronnie Spector enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Spector rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Ronnie always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Ronnie Spector often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Spector, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Ronnie Spector to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Ronnie's aspirations and ideals. Ronnie Spector also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Ronnie Spector a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Ronnie's past are especially dear to her.
Ronnie Spector may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.
She is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. She enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and she sometimes overdoes her generosity. Ronnie Spector often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.
Her childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Spector received was erratic and unreliable at best. Ronnie Spector has had to move a lot, or Spector's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Ronnie was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Ronnie Spector may long for "normalcy" while at the same time she balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.
Ronnie Spector often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Spector, both emotionally and physically.
She enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of her inner resources. She is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Ronnie Spector insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for she craves real closeness and intimacy in her relationships, without barriers or secrets.
She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Ronnie Spector is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Ronnie Spector also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Spector is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Ronnie Spector thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Ronnie Spector is warmly romantic and she openly expresses her appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. She enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Spector is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because she knows what she wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses her desires honestly.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Ronnie Spector rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Ronnie is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Spector craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Ronnie Spector needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
Ronnie Spector has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but she may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Ronnie tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.
Ronnie Spector treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows her affection for them. Her circle of friends is likely to be large and Spector strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Trine Jupiter
Moon Opposition Uranus
Moon Trine Pluto
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 11th house
Venus Trine Mars
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
Venus Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
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