Roger B. Chaffee
in Relationships

Roger B. Chaffee responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Chaffee often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Roger B. Chaffee must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Roger's need for times of withdrawal.

Roger B. Chaffee is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Roger B. Chaffee takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Though he yearns for close relationships, Roger B. Chaffee often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Chaffee is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Roger B. Chaffee tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Roger B. Chaffee becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Roger B. Chaffee also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Roger B. Chaffee often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Roger B. Chaffee seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Roger has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Chaffee can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Roger B. Chaffee gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Roger B. Chaffee may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Roger feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Roger B. Chaffee idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Roger B. Chaffee, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Chaffee and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Roger B. Chaffee appreciates artistic people.

Roger B. Chaffee tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Roger frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Roger B. Chaffee also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 8th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Pluto

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Opposition Neptune