Roger Abbott in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Roger Abbott only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Abbott.
Roger has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Roger Abbott has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Roger Abbott to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Roger Abbott has a great deal of emotional depth.
Roger Abbott has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Abbott also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Roger, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.
Roger has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Abbott cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
Roger Abbott has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Abbott would react more intensely. Roger is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Roger Abbott cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Roger wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Roger Abbott is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
Roger Abbott craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Abbott enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
A warm, loving and comfortable home is very important to Roger Abbott and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating and creating a lovely home. Also, Roger shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family ties is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Abbott happy.
Abbott's constitution tends to be on the weak side and he may tire easily. In love relationships he could be somewhat reserved and have a tendency toward platonic relationships. On the other hand, Roger Abbott could also have questionable romances that leave Roger disappointed.
Roger Abbott tends to make up his mind quickly in matters of love relationships and affection and may fall in love at first sight. His expectations about romance can be intense and Roger is inclined to exaggerate and could have arguments about his loved ones.
Roger Abbott has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find himself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Abbott could become quite obsessed by someone and he has a tendency to control and manipulate his relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 6th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Trine Saturn
Venus in Leo
Venus in 4th house
Venus Conjunct Sun/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Mars
Venus Conjunct Mars/Pluto
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