Roberto Assagioli
in Relationships

He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Roberto Assagioli rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Assagioli's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.

It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Assagioli may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Roberto difficult to live with. Roberto Assagioli needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.

Roberto has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Roberto Assagioli may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Assagioli's tie to his mother is very strong and Roberto Assagioli also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.

Roberto Assagioli has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Roberto out for help, sympathy or advice. Roberto Assagioli is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

Roberto has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Roberto Assagioli has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Roberto Assagioli undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

His emotional tension could be quite strong and the pressure may seem unbearable at times. He may have a sudden desire to liberate himself from the stress and may release his tension towards women. Roberto Assagioli could also feel lonely and depressed at times.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Roberto Assagioli values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Roberto desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Assagioli, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Roberto Assagioli appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Roberto is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Assagioli places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Roberto Assagioli feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Roberto Assagioli puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Roberto Assagioli and he is not happy without a love partner. Assagioli can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.

Roberto Assagioli loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy himself with his companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Roberto considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. His good humor and friendliness make him quite popular and well-liked. At times, Roberto Assagioli overdoes the festivities, but he rarely regrets this.

Roberto's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Roberto Assagioli is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Assagioli is to being left out or unappreciated.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Roberto Assagioli and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Roberto allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Roberto Assagioli, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

Roberto Assagioli loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Assagioli may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

It is hard for Roberto Assagioli to express his feelings and emotions to other people. He may feel especially inhibited in matters of love relationships and could feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled. Roberto Assagioli tends to feel lonely, even when he is in the company of others.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 4th house

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon Square Pluto

Moon Conjunct Saturn/Uranus

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Opposition Saturn/N. Node