Riki Rachtman
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Riki Rachtman denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Riki Rachtman needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Riki Rachtman also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
Riki has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Riki Rachtman may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Rachtman's ties to his mother are very strong and Riki also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.
He needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Riki Rachtman is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Riki has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make him cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Riki - one that can be enormously satisfying if he can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if he cannot.
He is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for himself or others. Subconsciously Riki Rachtman feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At his worst, Rachtman can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in his chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Riki's emotional indulgence - Rachtman tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.
There is another side to Riki Rachtman as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about fulfilling his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Riki Rachtman; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Riki Rachtman is apt to do more than his fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
In addition to Riki's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Riki Rachtman craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Rachtman rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Riki Rachtman craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Rachtman also loves to feel free and unfettered.
He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Riki Rachtman insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.
Sensitive and sentimental, Riki Rachtman is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Rachtman to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Riki Rachtman seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Riki likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Riki Rachtman very happy. Riki wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Riki Rachtman may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Rachtman is a natural host or diplomat.
He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Riki, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Riki Rachtman tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Rachtman's life.
His romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with him. Oftentimes Riki Rachtman is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that he has very little choice or control over his powerful feelings.
He may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive himself. Riki Rachtman should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for he could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 4th house
Moon Opposition Venus
Moon Quincunx Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Trine Uranus
Moon Trine Pluto
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 10th house
Venus Sextile Uranus
Venus Sextile Pluto
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