Ray Davies
in Relationships
Ray Davies responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Davies often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Ray Davies must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Ray's need for times of withdrawal.
Ray Davies is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Ray Davies takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.
Ray Davies often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Davies thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Ray is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Ray Davies has good psychological insight into others.
No matter how he appears on the surface, Ray Davies has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Ray's sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Davies is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Ray Davies was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Ray Davies feels lonely or isolated, even when he is with people. Learning to appreciate his own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Ray's emotional well-being.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Ray does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Ray Davies is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
He is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Ray Davies does not like to be alone and he always keeps his house open for his friends and acquaintances.
In a love relationship, Ray Davies is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Ray likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Ray Davies becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Ray Davies' happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Ray Davies needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Davies finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Ray Davies, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Davies and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.
He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Ray Davies appreciates artistic people.
Intimacy does not come easily to Ray Davies and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Davies does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Ray Davies needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.
Ray Davies has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though Ray frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Davies can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Davies' love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Conjunct Uranus/N. Node
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 3rd house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Square Neptune
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