Randall Cunningham
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Randall Cunningham has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Cunningham is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Randall Cunningham seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Cunningham tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Randall's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Randall Cunningham substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Randall Cunningham has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Cunningham also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Randall, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Randall Cunningham often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Cunningham actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Randall Cunningham to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Randall Cunningham becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Cunningham can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Randall Cunningham flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Randall Cunningham feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Randall Cunningham to learn. Randall Cunningham should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

Randall has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and his emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to Randall Cunningham and he may have an early desire for marriage.

He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Randall Cunningham values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Randall desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Cunningham, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Randall Cunningham appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Randall Cunningham, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Cunningham and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Randall Cunningham appreciates artistic people.

Randall Cunningham is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Randall is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Randall Cunningham professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Cunningham a lot of breathing space.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 6th house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Conjunct Venus/Mars

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Opposition Uranus