Rachel Miner
in Relationships

She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Rachel should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Miner often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Miner's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Rachel Miner insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Rachel does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Rachel Miner feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.

Miner gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Rachel Miner makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Rachel Miner needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.

Rachel Miner feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and she knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. She enjoys good relationships with women.

Miner can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Rachel Miner puts up subtle walls and distances herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Miner may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Rachel Miner might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge she faces.

In addition to Rachel's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Rachel Miner craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Miner rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Rachel Miner craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, she may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Rachel Miner to make or keep commitments, since she does not know how she will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Miner. Her domestic life may be very unstable - but Miner likes it that way.

Her health should be good and her recuperative powers are strong. Rachel Miner is able to express her feelings harmoniously and she considers herself wealthy either on material or spiritual planes. She is well liked and her relationships with others are congenial.

In a love relationship, Rachel Miner is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Rachel likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Rachel Miner becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Rachel Miner's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Rachel Miner needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Miner finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

For Rachel Miner, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and she loves giving and receiving gifts. Rachel greatly values luxury, comfort, and elegance and appreciates beautiful things. She can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people she loves and of her belongings is something Rachel Miner needs to beware of.

She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Rachel Miner rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Rachel is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Miner craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Rachel Miner needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.

When it comes to love relationships, Miner is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Rachel Miner has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Rachel acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Rachel Miner to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Rachel becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Rachel Miner really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Rachel's closest relationships.

Rachel Miner tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Rachel frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Rachel Miner also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Rachel Miner loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Miner may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

She is quickly aroused and likes to play with fire. A bit of a Don Juan, Rachel Miner seeks adventures in love relationships, but tends to be somewhat promiscuous. Miner tends to lead a modern way of life; her style of clothes as well as general life style.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 11th house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Opposition Sun/Jupiter

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Square Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Opposition Uranus/MC