Polly Bergen
in Relationships

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Polly Bergen has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Polly Bergen is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of her kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Bergen for help, which she readily gives. Sometimes Bergen's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

She is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of her feelings are vague and she cannot easily verbalize how she experiences life, music seems a natural language for Bergen. She is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".

Polly Bergen may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Bergen has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Polly Bergen wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Polly is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.

She needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Polly Bergen is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Polly has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make her cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Polly - one that can be enormously satisfying if she can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if she cannot.

She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Polly Bergen tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Polly Bergen becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Polly Bergen also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.

She is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. She enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and she sometimes overdoes her generosity. Polly Bergen often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

Although Polly Bergen was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Polly's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Polly Bergen flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Polly Bergen feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Polly Bergen to learn. Polly Bergen should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

Polly Bergen has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. Polly looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. Polly Bergen must learn to deal with her extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.

Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Polly Bergen cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in her partner. Polly wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Polly Bergen is tremendously loyal and devoted once she gives her heart to someone.

Polly Bergen craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. She is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Bergen enjoys a touch of drama and color in her love relationships and she is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.

Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Polly Bergen, and she has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Bergen and she instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

She enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Polly Bergen appreciates artistic people.

She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Polly Bergen puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Polly Bergen and she is not happy without a love partner. Bergen can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.

She is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Polly Bergen yearns for her "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to her dream image of the perfect lover. Bergen frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone she can only love from afar. She may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Polly Bergen does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Pisces

Moon in 9th house

Moon Opposition Venus

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Opposition Venus/Neptune

Venus in Leo

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Conjunct Neptune