Phyllis Gates-Hudson
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Phyllis Gates-Hudson rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Phyllis Hudson's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Phyllis Hudson may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Phyllis Gates difficult to live with. Phyllis Gates-Hudson needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Phyllis Gates-Hudson may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Phyllis Hudson has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Phyllis Gates-Hudson wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Phyllis Gates is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.

Phyllis Gates-Hudson feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and she knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. She enjoys good relationships with women.

Phyllis Gates-Hudson tends to be a loner and is inclined to suppress her feelings. Other people think they know Phyllis Gates, but they never really do. At times she may withdraw too much and may alienate others. Phyllis Gates-Hudson is also somewhat biased and may be torn by inner conflicts.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Phyllis Gates-Hudson values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Phyllis Gates desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Phyllis Hudson, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Phyllis Gates-Hudson appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

For Phyllis Gates-Hudson, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and she loves giving and receiving gifts. Phyllis Gates greatly values luxury, comfort, and elegance and appreciates beautiful things. She can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people she loves and of her belongings is something Phyllis Gates-Hudson needs to beware of.

She is likely to have many romantic relationships or unusual love experiences. Phyllis Gates-Hudson tends to fall in love quickly and enjoy a conquest, but then tire of what has been conquered. If she does not keep this in control, she could end up in a hasty marriage and a quick divorce.

She is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Phyllis Gates-Hudson is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, she may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 9th house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Conjunct Sun/Pluto

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Conjunct Sun/Uranus

Venus Opposition Neptune/Pluto