Phoebe Cates
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Phoebe Cates has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Cates is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.

Phoebe Cates seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Cates tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Phoebe's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Phoebe Cates substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Though she yearns for close relationships, Phoebe Cates often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. Cates is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.

She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Phoebe Cates cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Cates' motto.

Phoebe Cates has a cheerful temperament and a harmonious disposition. Because of her easy personality, Cates gets along easily with others. Home and family relationships are precious to Phoebe and her home is likely to be large and lavish.

Her emotional tension could be quite strong and the pressure may seem unbearable at times. She may have a sudden desire to liberate herself from the stress and may release her tension towards women. Phoebe Cates could also feel lonely and depressed at times.

Sensitive and sentimental, Phoebe Cates is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Cates to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Phoebe Cates seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Phoebe likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Phoebe Cates very happy. Phoebe wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Phoebe Cates may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Cates is a natural host or diplomat.

Sensitive and compassionate, Cates tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Phoebe has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Phoebe is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Her romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with her. Oftentimes Phoebe Cates is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that she has very little choice or control over her powerful feelings.

She may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive herself. Phoebe Cates should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for she could gain the reputation of being a "user".

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 8th house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/MC

Moon Opposition Saturn/Uranus

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 10th house

Venus Trine Neptune

Venus Sextile Pluto