Peter Bogdanovich
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Peter should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Bogdanovich often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Bogdanovich's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Peter Bogdanovich insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Peter does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Peter Bogdanovich feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Bogdanovich gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Peter Bogdanovich makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Peter Bogdanovich needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.

Peter Bogdanovich often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Bogdanovich actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Peter Bogdanovich to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Peter Bogdanovich becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Bogdanovich can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Peter Bogdanovich that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Bogdanovich's neediness often drives others away. When Peter Bogdanovich does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Bogdanovich will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Peter Bogdanovich will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

Peter Bogdanovich tends to be a loner and is inclined to suppress his feelings. Other people think they know Peter, but they never really do. At times he may withdraw too much and may alienate others. Peter Bogdanovich is also somewhat biased and may be torn by inner conflicts.

Peter Bogdanovich is in harmony with himself and the world around him and is guided by his instincts. The parental type, he would like to solve everyone's problems. Very warm, sympathetic and cordial, Peter radiates harmony wherever he goes.

Sensitive and sentimental, Peter Bogdanovich is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Bogdanovich to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Peter Bogdanovich seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Peter likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.

Peter Bogdanovich loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Bogdanovich needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner, and he wants to feel very, very special, like a royalty, to his beloved. Peter Bogdanovich also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or beauty in some form.

Peter Bogdanovich simply does not feel alive without vibrant, passionate love relationships in his life, and if his romantic urges are frustrated or if his intimate relationships become too tame or mellow, Peter Bogdanovich will do something to stir up the flames. Peter Bogdanovich relates naturally to fighting, competition, tumultuous conflict, and fiery lovemaking. He may be more selfish and demanding than he realizes.

He is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy himself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Peter Bogdanovich rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in his early life, Peter is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing his feelings. Though Bogdanovich craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for him. He may become romantically involved with people who do not value him or treat him well. Peter Bogdanovich needs to learn to love and value himself before he finds happiness in love.

Peter has deep, compelling love feelings that seem irresistible and often irrational. His love relationships are very passionate and intense, and Bogdanovich experiences both agony and ecstasy in love. Peter Bogdanovich is always profoundly changed by his love experiences, though this change may stem from painful and difficult confrontations or separations. He is somewhat emotionally fanatic about things he cares about.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 11th house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Opposition Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Pluto

Moon Conjunct Asc./MC

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 5th house

Venus Opposition Mars

Venus Square Saturn

Venus Conjunct Pluto