Paula Poundstone
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Paula Poundstone denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Paula Poundstone needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Paula Poundstone also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Paula Poundstone may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Poundstone has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Paula Poundstone wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Paula is restless and something of a wanderer.

Serious and emotionally reserved, Paula Poundstone was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Paula Poundstone feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Paula's emotional well-being.

Paula Poundstone tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Paula to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Paula Poundstone may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

She enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of her inner resources. She is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Paula Poundstone insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for she craves real closeness and intimacy in her relationships, without barriers or secrets.

Paula has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to Paula Poundstone, and she is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of her friends.

In love relationships, Paula Poundstone desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Paula "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Poundstone can be very demanding of her love partner. Paula Poundstone tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Paula Poundstone is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Paula Poundstone craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Paula loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Poundstone.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 9th house

Moon Conjunct Saturn

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Trine Pluto

Moon Opposition N. Node/Asc.

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 8th house