Paul Stanley
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Paul Stanley only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Stanley.

Paul has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Paul Stanley has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Paul Stanley to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Paul Stanley has a great deal of emotional depth.

Paul Stanley has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Stanley also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Paul, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Paul Stanley feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Paul may not realize how competitive he is.

He is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Paul Stanley does not like to be alone and he always keeps his house open for his friends and acquaintances.

In love relationships, Paul Stanley seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Paul, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Paul Stanley supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Paul that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Paul Stanley is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Paul Stanley craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Paul loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Stanley.

Paul Stanley has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to him. In his friendships and romantic relationships, Stanley tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Paul Stanley might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

Paul Stanley loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Stanley may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

It is hard for Paul Stanley to express his feelings and emotions to other people. He may feel especially inhibited in matters of love relationships and could feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled. Paul Stanley tends to feel lonely, even when he is in the company of others.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 6th house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Moon Opposition Uranus/N. Node

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 8th house

Venus Sextile Neptune

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Conjunct Saturn/N. Node