Paul Éluard
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Paul Éluard only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Éluard.

Paul has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Paul Éluard has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Paul Éluard to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Paul Éluard has a great deal of emotional depth.

Paul Éluard may have done extensive traveling in his early years, or in some way had a background which enables him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Éluard has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things he has never experienced before. Paul Éluard wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Paul is restless and something of a wanderer.

Paul Éluard feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Paul may not realize how competitive he is.

Paul Éluard has a very attractive personality and loves to socialize. Because of this he is very popular, especially with the opposite sex. Paul Éluard also has a sense of beauty and may be interested in some kind of artistic work or hobby.

Emotionally, he is very vulnerable and tends to have his feelings hurt quite easily. He is very impressionable and inclined to suffer states of melancholy or depression. Paul Éluard may choose a profession where he is allowed to be his own boss.

In love relationships, Paul Éluard desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Paul "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Éluard can be very demanding of his love partner. Paul Éluard tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Paul Éluard is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Paul Éluard craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Paul loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Éluard.

Paul Éluard shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Paul's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Paul Éluard also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Paul likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 9th house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Moon Conjunct Sun/Venus

Moon Conjunct Saturn/MC

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 8th house

Venus Square Jupiter