Paul Bettany
in Relationships

Paul Bettany responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Bettany often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Paul Bettany must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Paul's need for times of withdrawal.

Paul Bettany is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Paul Bettany takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Bettany gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Paul Bettany makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship with people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Paul Bettany needs close relationships with people outside of his physical family.

Paul Bettany genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support him. It is relatively easy for Paul Bettany to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in his life. Children are very important to Bettany also.

Paul Bettany tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Paul feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Paul Bettany also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that he is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Bettany to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Paul Bettany may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

Paul Bettany craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Paul Bettany to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Bettany. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Bettany likes it that way.

He is easily influenced by his environment and tends to get depressed when things do not go the way he expected. Relationships are not easy for Paul Bettany; he could be a recluse, avoiding most contact with others.

In love relationships, Paul Bettany is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Paul enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Paul Bettany responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Paul is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Bettany places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Paul Bettany feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Paul Bettany puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Paul Bettany and he is not happy without a love partner. Bettany can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.

While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Paul Bettany to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Paul becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Paul Bettany really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Paul's closest relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 11th house

Moon Sextile Venus

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Conjunct Saturn/Asc.

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 9th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Quincunx Uranus