Paul Allen
in Relationships
Paul Allen has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Allen expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Paul Allen dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Paul abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Paul Allen inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Paul is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Allen.
Paul Allen becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Allen feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Paul, and it is often difficult for him to share what he is feeling with others.
Paul Allen frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his own world.
Allen identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Paul Allen either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. Paul Allen tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Allen's relationships with his mother, will determine whether Paul Allen will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Paul Allen flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Paul Allen feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Paul Allen to learn. Paul Allen should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Paul Allen insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.
Paul Allen tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. Paul may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance his overly pessimistic views.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Paul Allen gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Paul Allen may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Paul feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Paul Allen idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Allen is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Paul Allen thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Paul Allen is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Paul Allen pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Paul Allen is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Paul and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Allen's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
He is very affectionate in his relationships and tends to form deep attachments with other people. Paul Allen may also enjoy contacts with the arts and may join associations that are connected with artistic events or cultural exchanges.
Paul Allen has a merry disposition and a strong desire for pleasure and amusement. Interested in art, he has a sense of beauty, but also could be somewhat extravagant. His outgoing personality puts others at ease and Allen tends to discuss love and beauty with them.
His feelings are very rich and Paul Allen has an enormous capacity to express his love. He is very cordial and likely to experience happiness in love relationships. Paul Allen may also have artistic aspirations or aims and could be very successful in some kind of artistic work.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 12th house
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Opposition Neptune
Moon Trine Pluto
Moon Opposition Saturn/Neptune
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 11th house
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Conjunct Moon/N. Node
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Jupiter/MC
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