Patrice Estanguet
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Patrice Estanguet only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Estanguet.

Patrice has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Patrice Estanguet has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Patrice Estanguet to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Patrice Estanguet has a great deal of emotional depth.

Patrice Estanguet has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Estanguet also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Patrice, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Patrice Estanguet tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Patrice Estanguet becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although Estanguet gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Patrice Estanguet to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

Estanguet can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Patrice Estanguet puts up subtle walls and distances himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Estanguet may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Patrice Estanguet might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge he faces.

In love relationships, Patrice Estanguet is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Patrice enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. Patrice Estanguet responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Patrice Estanguet often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Patrice. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Patrice Estanguet may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Patrice Estanguet - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.

He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Patrice Estanguet to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Estanguet may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Patrice Estanguet will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 6th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 12th house

Venus Quincunx Pluto