Pat Tillman
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Pat Tillman has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Tillman is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Pat Tillman seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Tillman tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Pat's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Pat Tillman substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Pat Tillman cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.

Pat Tillman has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets him into trouble, as Pat takes risks on an impulse or a whim.

Pat Tillman often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Tillman actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Pat Tillman to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Pat Tillman becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Tillman can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

In addition to Pat's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Pat Tillman craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Tillman rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Tillman received was erratic and unreliable at best. Pat Tillman has had to move a lot, or Tillman's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Pat was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Pat Tillman may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.

Pat Tillman often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Tillman, both emotionally and physically.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Pat Tillman needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Tillman. Pat Tillman tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.

Powerful and complex emotions stir Pat Tillman, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are liable to be tumultuous until Pat does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only intensify them, and Pat Tillman needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating if Pat Tillman is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

Emotionally excitable, Tillman tends to act impulsively and make rash decisions without thinking of the consequences. Others may see Pat as an eccentric, somewhat selfish and unpredictable. Pat Tillman seems to attract sudden upsetting experiences.

Pat Tillman has a somewhat excitable disposition and his moods and thoughts change rapidly. Enterprising, original and intuitive, Pat Tillman has an instinctive correct grasp of a subject. He is intellectual, resents interference and it is hard to deceive him.

His attitude toward other people is very emotional and Pat Tillman feels a certain soul affinity with them. Pat has an inner need to express his feelings to others and is especially partial to groups where he can help to further their accomplishments.

He is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Pat Tillman immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. He may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.

Pat Tillman seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Pat likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. He is guided by his feelings and seems to live in a world of his own.

In love relationships, Pat Tillman seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Pat, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Pat Tillman supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Pat that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Pat Tillman is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Tillman is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Pat Tillman is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Pat uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Pat Tillman does.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Pat Tillman in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Tillman is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Pat Tillman at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 5th house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Opposition Uranus

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Uranus

Moon Opposition Mercury/Uranus

Moon Opposition Mars/N. Node

Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto

Moon Opposition Neptune/MC

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 1st house

Venus Trine Saturn