Pat Benatar
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Pat Benatar only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Benatar.

Pat has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Pat Benatar has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Pat Benatar to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Pat Benatar has a great deal of emotional depth.

Benatar depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Pat's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Pat Benatar may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Pat Benatar craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Benatar also loves to feel free and unfettered.

Her emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Benatar may feel inhibited when she is with others. Pat Benatar is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Pat Benatar gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Pat Benatar may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Pat feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Pat Benatar idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Benatar is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Pat Benatar thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Pat Benatar is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Pat Benatar pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.

Pat Benatar finds it easy to demonstrate her love and affection for others and to talk about love relationships, and Benatar tends to reveal her most personal feelings to people in her intimate circle of friends.

Her romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. Pat Benatar longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Benatar tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.

Pat Benatar is extremely sensitive to her surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. Benatar tends to avoid the truth about herself and her relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 7th house

Moon Trine Uranus

Moon Conjunct Pluto/N. Node

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Asc.

Venus Opposition Saturn/Uranus

Venus Opposition Uranus/Neptune