Paloma Picasso
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Paloma Picasso denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Paloma Picasso needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Paloma Picasso also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Paloma Picasso often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Picasso thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Paloma is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Paloma Picasso has good psychological insight into others.

Paloma has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Picasso cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Paloma Picasso tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Paloma Picasso becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Paloma Picasso also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.

She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Paloma Picasso expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.

Paloma Picasso tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Paloma Picasso can create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Paloma also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Paloma Picasso craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.

Her mind is very impressionable and sometimes her imagination could be a little misguided. Paloma Picasso loves to daydream and to live in her own world of fantasies. But she is receptive and has a sympathetic understanding of others.

She is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Paloma Picasso is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of her strong points and Paloma must learn to master her irritability and quarrelsomeness.

In love relationships, Paloma Picasso is steadfast and loyal, especially if she has a warm, demonstrative partner. She is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Paloma enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. She is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of her loved one. Paloma Picasso responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of her partner is very important to her.

Picasso is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in her relationships that love and cherish her. Paloma Picasso prefers being with others rather than on her own, and she feels very incomplete without a special person in her life to share her love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Paloma.

Paloma is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. Her charm and agreeableness makes Paloma Picasso very popular.

Paloma Picasso shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Paloma's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Paloma Picasso also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Paloma likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.

Paloma's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Paloma Picasso is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Picasso is to being left out or unappreciated.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Paloma Picasso in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Picasso is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Paloma Picasso at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.

When it comes to love relationships, Picasso is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Paloma Picasso has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Paloma acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

She needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Paloma, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Paloma Picasso tends to surround herself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep her life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Picasso's life.

Paloma Picasso tends to make up her mind quickly in matters of love relationships and affection and may fall in love at first sight. Her expectations about romance can be intense and Paloma is inclined to exaggerate and could have arguments about her loved ones.

Paloma Picasso has a need to mix with people expressing the same feelings and having the same interests that she has. Paloma shares her artistic concerns with others and is likely to join groups or associations that deal with art in some way.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Opposition Mercury/Neptune

Moon Conjunct Mars/Asc.

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 7th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Sextile Uranus

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Mars

Venus Conjunct Mercury/N. Node