Oscar Wilde
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Oscar Wilde inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Oscar wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Wilde lavishes on those he cares about. Oscar Wilde has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Oscar Wilde hates emotional games and dishonesty.

Wilde gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Oscar Wilde makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Oscar Wilde needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.

He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about fulfilling his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Oscar Wilde; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Oscar Wilde is apt to do more than his fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.

In addition to Oscar's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Oscar Wilde craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Wilde rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Oscar Wilde craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Oscar Wilde to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Wilde. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Wilde likes it that way.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Oscar Wilde needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Wilde. Oscar Wilde tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.

Oscar Wilde has a somewhat excitable disposition and his moods and thoughts change rapidly. Enterprising, original and intuitive, Oscar Wilde has an instinctive correct grasp of a subject. He is intellectual, resents interference and it is hard to deceive him.

His sense of reality is a bit weak; Wilde tends to daydream and lose himself in his plans. He is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help him escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Oscar may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

Oscar Wilde possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Oscar Wilde will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Oscar does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Oscar Wilde wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Oscar Wilde appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

For Oscar Wilde, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Oscar greatly values luxury, comfort, and elegance and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Oscar Wilde needs to beware of.

Oscar Wilde has a passionate nature and a strong expression of his sexuality. His creative energies also are strong and he may enjoy doing some creative work such as sculpturing, performing music or dancing.

He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Oscar Wilde is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 11th house

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Uranus

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Neptune

Venus in Libra

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Conjunct Moon/Mars

Venus Opposition Neptune/Pluto