Olga Kern
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Olga Kern rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Kern's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Kern may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Olga difficult to live with. Olga Kern needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Olga Kern often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and she is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Kern thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Olga is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Olga Kern has good psychological insight into others.

In a love relationship, Olga Kern is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Olga likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Olga Kern becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Olga Kern's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Olga Kern needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Kern finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Kern is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Olga Kern thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Olga Kern puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Olga Kern and she is not happy without a love partner. Kern can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.

Olga Kern loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy herself with her companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Olga considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. Her good humor and friendliness make her quite popular and well-liked. At times, Olga Kern overdoes the festivities, but she rarely regrets this.

Olga Kern tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Olga frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Olga Kern also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Olga Kern loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Kern may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Chronically discontented, she is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Olga Kern tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Olga has to learn to overcome her fears and general shyness with people.

Her personal relationships are very affectionate. Olga enjoys the company of other people and has a harmonious attitude toward them. Olga Kern also has a sense of art and may decorate her surroundings very artistically.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 3rd house

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 11th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.