Nidia Guenard
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Nidia Guenard rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Guenard's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Guenard may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Nidia difficult to live with. Nidia Guenard needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Nidia Guenard often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Guenard thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Nidia is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Nidia Guenard has good psychological insight into others.

Nidia Guenard takes offense rather quickly and her instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. She has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When she is not actively involved, she is not comfortable. Nidia Guenard actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

There is a side to Nidia Guenard that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Guenard can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Guenard. If Nidia's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Nidia Guenard can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Nidia is particularly prone to.

Although Guenard gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Nidia Guenard to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

Serious and emotionally reserved, Nidia Guenard was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Nidia Guenard feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Nidia's emotional well-being.

Nidia Guenard has a good perception and feeling of beauty and may have a talent for painting or drawing. Nidia Guenard has a magnetic charm and is refined and calm when she is with people. Nidia has the ability to win people over by what she says and how she says it.

Nidia Guenard has a very rich emotional life and the ability to do the right thing at the right moment. Through an appeal to the feelings, she is able to influence the public; Guenard may have the desire to work in some capacity to bring about social improvements.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Nidia Guenard values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Nidia desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Guenard, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Nidia Guenard appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

Nidia Guenard craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Nidia loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Guenard.

Nidia Guenard tends to deprive herself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because she feels she does not deserve it or she thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Guenard may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. She may also think of herself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close her heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like her. Nidia Guenard is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and her shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept herself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Nidia believes she has - is vital for her. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Opposition Mars

Moon Quincunx Venus

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Conjunct Saturn

Moon Opposition Mercury/Venus

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Pluto

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 8th house

Venus Quincunx Saturn