Nico
in Relationships
Nico responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Nico often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Nico must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Nico's need for times of withdrawal.
Nico is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Nico takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.
Nico depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Nico's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Nico may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.
Nico is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and she enjoys sharing this kind of energy with her friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to her. In fact, Nico needs to do these things - otherwise she gets crabby.
Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Nico also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.
She is prone to be overly indulgent, overly permissive, overly generous and disinclined to budget or diet or set reasonable limits for herself or others. Subconsciously Nico feels entitled to bounty, and sees no reason to be deprived. At her worst, Nico can be greedy but insatiable, and addicted to "the good life". However, if other factors in her chart indicate a capacity for discipline and prudence, there is a positive side to Nico's emotional indulgence - Nico tends to be quite charitable and tolerant, freely giving and willing to embrace others despite their shortcomings.
Although Nico was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Nico's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Nico tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Nico to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Nico may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
In love relationships, Nico seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Nico, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Nico supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Nico that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Nico is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Nico often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Nico. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Nico may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Nico - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Nico loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Nico may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.
Nico treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows her affection for them. Her circle of friends is likely to be large and Nico strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 7th house
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Quincunx Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Sextile Neptune
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 12th house
Venus Trine Pluto
Venus Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
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