Nick Lachey
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Nick Lachey has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Lachey is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Nick Lachey seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Lachey tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Nick's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Nick Lachey substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Nick Lachey often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Lachey thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Nick is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Nick Lachey has good psychological insight into others.

Nick Lachey feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.

Nick Lachey has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Nick out for help, sympathy or advice. Nick Lachey is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

There is another side to Nick Lachey as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Nick Lachey and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Nick Lachey is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Nick Lachey needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing, or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Lachey. Nick Lachey tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disappointments through women and in close relationships may occur if Lachey does not.

Powerful and complex emotions stir Nick Lachey, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until Nick does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and Nick Lachey needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating, if Nick Lachey is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

Emotionally excitable, Lachey tends to act impulsively and make rash decisions without thinking of the consequences. Others may see Nick as an eccentric, somewhat selfish and unpredictable. Nick Lachey seems to attract sudden upsetting experiences.

Nick Lachey seems to have a quick temper, is somewhat irritable and tends to get upset easily. Nick Lachey may also have frequent changes of mood; in fact, his feelings could change from one minute to the next. He also tends to act without sufficient deliberation.

He is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Nick Lachey immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. He may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.

He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Nick Lachey cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Lachey's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Nick at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Nick Lachey is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.

Nick Lachey may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Nick desires.

Nick Lachey often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Nick. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Nick Lachey may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Nick Lachey - having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Nick Lachey and may well inhibit him from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying himself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Nick allows himself. Heartache and a loss of love in his life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close his heart to love or cause him to deeply cherish the friends and love he receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Nick Lachey, but he will value it tremendously when it does come into his life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause him to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

Nick Lachey experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Nick Lachey has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Nick Lachey can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Uranus

Moon Opposition Uranus/MC

Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 12th house

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus Square Pluto