Neile Adams
in Relationships

Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Neile Adams is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Neile Adams is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.

Adams gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Neile Adams makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Neile Adams needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.

Neile has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Adams cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Neile Adams has an inner poise and balance that enables her to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. She maintains her perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Adams would react more intensely. Neile is quietly supportive and faithful to her friends and loved ones.

She is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Neile Adams does not like to be alone and she always keeps her house open for her friends and acquaintances.

Sensitive and sentimental, Neile Adams is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Adams to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Neile Adams seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Neile likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Neile Adams craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Neile loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Adams.

Neile Adams tends to deprive herself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because she feels she does not deserve it or she thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Adams may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. She may also think of herself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close her heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like her. Neile Adams is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and her shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept herself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Neile believes she has - is vital for her. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

She is romantic and amorous and has a well-developed sexual nature. Neile expresses her feelings openly, but sometimes could feel hurt if people do not respond to her. Neile Adams also has a strong drive to express herself in artistic ways.

Neile Adams has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find herself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Adams could become quite obsessed by someone and she has a tendency to control and manipulate her relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 11th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon Opposition Uranus/N. Node

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 8th house

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus Conjunct Sun/Mars

Venus Conjunct Mars/Pluto