Ned Brower
in Relationships

Ned Brower responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Brower often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Ned Brower must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Ned's need for times of withdrawal.

Ned Brower is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Ned Brower takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.

Ned has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Ned Brower may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Brower's ties to his mother are very strong and Ned also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.

Ned Brower takes offense rather quickly and his instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. He has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When he is not actively involved, he is not comfortable. Ned Brower actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

In love relationships, Ned Brower desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Ned "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Brower can be very demanding of his love partner. Ned Brower tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Ned Brower is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Ned Brower craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Ned loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Brower.

Ned Brower shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Ned's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Ned Brower also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Ned likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.

Ned's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Ned Brower is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Brower is to being left out or unappreciated.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Ned Brower to be able to deeply respect his partner. Ned looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for him. Ned Brower is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

When it comes to love relationships, Brower is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Ned Brower has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Ned acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Ned Brower falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Ned to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Brower's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Ned Brower, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.

His interests may lead Ned Brower to unusual or specialized artistic fields and he has the ability to successfully advertise or promote his projects. Ned could do well in journalism and in writing sexual literature. This astrological configuration also is associated with a marriage swindler!

Ned likes to feel at one with the whole world and is cordial and warm-hearted in collaborating with others. Public-spirited, Ned Brower seems to be real content and happy only when he is among other people.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 4th house

Moon Opposition Mars

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 8th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Conjunct Uranus

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Pluto

Venus Conjunct Mars/N. Node