Natalie Gulbis
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Natalie Gulbis only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Gulbis.
Natalie has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Natalie Gulbis has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Natalie Gulbis to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Natalie Gulbis has a great deal of emotional depth.
Gulbis depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends that care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Natalie's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them powerfully influence her sense of security and happiness. Natalie Gulbis may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.
Natalie has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Gulbis cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Natalie Gulbis was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Natalie Gulbis feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Natalie's emotional well-being.
She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Natalie Gulbis values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Natalie desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Gulbis, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Natalie Gulbis appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Natalie Gulbis very happy. Natalie wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Natalie Gulbis may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Gulbis is a natural host or diplomat.
Natalie Gulbis loves to laugh, celebrate, and to enjoy herself with her companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Natalie considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. Her good humor and friendliness make her quite popular and well-liked. At times, Natalie Gulbis overdoes the festivities, but she rarely regrets this.
Natalie's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Natalie Gulbis is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Gulbis is to being left out or unappreciated.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Natalie Gulbis rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Natalie is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Gulbis craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Natalie Gulbis needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
Natalie Gulbis experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and she may feel that she has little choice or control over her desires. Natalie Gulbis has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. Her love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in her relationships. On the positive side, Natalie Gulbis can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by her deeply felt love.
She is inclined to do everything with love and may even be in love with her profession. At times Natalie Gulbis is apt to consider her work as a substitute for a partner, but she could also show some narcissistic tendencies.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 7th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 10th house
Venus Sextile Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mars/MC
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