Nat King Cole
in Relationships

His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Nat King Cole is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Nat King Cole is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.

Though he yearns for close relationships, Nat King Cole often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. King Cole is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.

Nat King Cole takes offense rather quickly and his instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. He has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When he is not actively involved, he is not comfortable. Nat King Cole actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Nat King Cole also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

Nat King Cole has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Nat King out for help, sympathy or advice. Nat King Cole is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

Although Nat King Cole was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Nat King's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Nat King Cole tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Nat King to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Nat King Cole may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

Nat King has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Nat King Cole has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Nat King Cole undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

He is warm and affectionate in his relationships with others and has the ability to see the others' point of view, which is greatly appreciated by those around him. Nat King Cole is emotionally well balanced and also has a well developed intellectual grasp.

Emotionally, he is very vulnerable and tends to have his feelings hurt quite easily. He is very impressionable and inclined to suffer states of melancholy or depression. Nat King Cole may choose a profession where he is allowed to be his own boss.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Nat King Cole enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Nat King wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to Nat King Cole, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to King Cole and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. Nat King Cole appreciates artistic people.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Nat King Cole in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. King Cole is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Nat King Cole at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 8th house

Moon Opposition Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Square Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Mercury

Moon Conjunct Saturn/MC

Venus in Aries

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Trine Saturn