Nancy Allen
in Relationships

Nancy does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Nancy Allen would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Nancy Allen avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Allen. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

Nancy Allen may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Allen has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Nancy Allen wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Nancy is restless and something of a wanderer.

Nancy Allen feels that she must always be doing something, and she becomes impatient and irritable if she has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of her own tendency to fight for what she wants, rather than compromise. Nancy may not realize how competitive she is.

Although Nancy Allen was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Nancy's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Allen's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Nancy Allen is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Nancy has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people she cares about. Her relationships to her mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in her life are apt to be incredibly close and intense. Nancy Allen may be easily manipulated too, when it comes to one of these important relationships, because she is so emotionally invested in it.

Her thinking and acting are strongly influenced by her feelings. Nancy has great mental energy, is somewhat restless, curious and impatient, and at times she may need to slow down. Nancy Allen loves debate and argument and also has good writing ability.

Sensitive and sentimental, Nancy Allen is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Allen to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Nancy Allen seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Nancy likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Nancy Allen very happy. Nancy wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Nancy Allen may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Allen is a natural host or diplomat.

She may be subject to periodic changes of mood, is serious, somewhat somber, and she seems to lack confidence in herself and could have trouble giving of hers. Nancy Allen tends to avoid close relationships, expecting to be disappointed if she lets anyone come too close.

Chronically discontented, she is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Nancy Allen tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Nancy has to learn to overcome her fears and general shyness with people.

It may be hard for Nancy Allen to love someone and to express her love for them. There seems to be a wall built up between her and others and she seems very cool to them. Her disposition is very reserved and withdrawn, making it difficult for people to approach her.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 9th house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Mars

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Moon/Saturn

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn

Venus Conjunct Mars/Saturn