Nancy Spungen
in Relationships
Nancy does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Nancy Spungen would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.
Nancy Spungen avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Spungen. The strong, silent partner is not for her.
Nancy Spungen often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Spungen thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Nancy is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Nancy Spungen has good psychological insight into others.
Nancy Spungen tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if she perceives a threat to her family or home or personal safety, she can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Nancy feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Nancy Spungen also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and she is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Spungen to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Nancy Spungen may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in her relationships.
Nancy Spungen has a good-natured disposition and an affectionate and cordial manner. Charming, optimistic and outgoing, she is warm and friendly to everyone she meets. Spungen is at peace with the world and want to share her feelings with her friends and acquaintances.
She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Nancy Spungen values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Nancy desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Spungen, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Nancy Spungen appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Spungen is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Nancy Spungen thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Nancy Spungen shares whatever she has freely and her friends know they can always count on Nancy's generosity and support - both emotional and material. Her good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in her relationships. Nancy Spungen also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Nancy likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. She cannot tolerate being overly restricted by her love partner, and encourages her partner's freedom as well.
Nancy Spungen has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to her dream image of the "perfect love". Though Nancy frequently fantasizes about love and romance - she may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Spungen can be evasive and dishonest with herself and others. Some of Spungen's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Nancy Spungen to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Spungen may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Nancy Spungen will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Nancy Spungen tends to suppress her feelings and she approaches other people with great reserve. She may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between her and others. But once Nancy Spungen enters a relationship, she will be faithful and steady in her feelings for her partner.
Her association with those around she may have a depressing influence on Nancy Spungen causing her to shy away from relationships of any kind. Finding it difficult to express herself emotionally, she is quite likely to become a loner.
Nancy Spungen has a strong desire for harmony and beauty in her surroundings. Very interested in art, she is likely to devote her life to beauty and art. She may pursue a career in cultivating and embellishing the environment.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon Opposition Venus/Jupiter
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Quincunx Pluto
Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Asc.
Venus Conjunct Asc./MC
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