Musetta Vander
in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Musetta Vander rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Vander's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Vander may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Musetta difficult to live with. Musetta Vander needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Musetta Vander has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Musetta sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Musetta Vander is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she comes across. Musetta wears her heart on her sleeves and cannot hide her emotions.
She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Musetta Vander expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.
Musetta has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Vander craves excitement and emotional freedom and she likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Vander and she has little patience for restrictive customs. Musetta Vander is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.
Musetta Vander tends to surround herself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in her personal relationships. It is easy for Musetta to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Musetta Vander may share this type of telepathic link with her mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
Her emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Musetta Vander seems quite peaceful and the next, she is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of her reactions often surprises even her. Musetta has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things she cares about. Her feelings and desires can be so compelling that she does things against her better judgment and reason. Vander can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. Her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
Musetta has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to her advantage. Her quick understanding of things allows Musetta Vander to see beyond ordinary limits, and she has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.
Musetta Vander tends to go to extremes to be different or to preserve her freedom, and her nature is rather thoughtless, impatient and restless. She is daring and audacious, ambitious and determined, but feels that things can only be accomplished by using force.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Musetta Vander enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Musetta wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Musetta Vander craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Musetta loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Vander.
She is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Musetta Vander to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Vander may be tempted to use her own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if her intentions are basically good, Musetta Vander will find that her closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of her character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 1st house
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Uranus
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus
Moon Conjunct Uranus/Pluto
Venus in Aries
Venus in 8th house
Venus Quincunx Pluto
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