Miles Davis in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Miles Davis only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Davis.
Miles has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Miles Davis has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Miles Davis to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Miles Davis has a great deal of emotional depth.
Miles Davis has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Davis also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Miles, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.
There is a side to Miles Davis which loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Davis can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Davis. If Miles' parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Miles Davis can be so soft and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Miles is particularly prone to.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Miles Davis was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Miles Davis feels lonely or isolated, even when he is with people. Learning to appreciate his own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Miles' emotional well-being.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Miles does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Miles Davis is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Miles Davis tends to go to extremes to be different or to preserve his freedom, and his nature is rather thoughtless, impatient and restless. He is daring and audacious, ambitious and determined, but feels that things can only be accomplished by using force.
He is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Miles Davis does not like to be alone and he always keeps his house open for his friends and acquaintances.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Miles Davis enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Miles wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Davis is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Miles Davis thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Miles Davis tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Davis may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. Miles Davis is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Miles believes he has - is so important for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
Sensitive and compassionate, Davis tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Miles has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Miles is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 6th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Opposition Uranus/Pluto
Moon Opposition Uranus/N. Node
Venus in Aries
Venus in 11th house
Venus Quincunx Saturn
Venus Trine Neptune
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