Mickey Hargitay
in Relationships
Open and generous, Mickey Hargitay enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Hargitay rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Mickey always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Mickey Hargitay often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Hargitay, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Mickey Hargitay to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Mickey's aspirations and ideals. Mickey Hargitay also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Mickey Hargitay a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Mickey's past are especially dear to him.
Mickey Hargitay may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
Hargitay is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like good fun to him. In fact, Mickey Hargitay needs to do these things - otherwise he gets crabby.
Although Hargitay gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Mickey Hargitay to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about fulfilling his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Mickey Hargitay; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Mickey Hargitay is apt to do more than his fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
Although Mickey Hargitay was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Mickey's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Mickey does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. Mickey Hargitay is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
He is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Mickey Hargitay is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of his strong points and Mickey must learn to master his irritability and quarrelsomeness.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Mickey Hargitay values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Mickey desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Hargitay, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Mickey Hargitay appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
A warm, loving and comfortable home is very important to Mickey Hargitay and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating and creating a lovely home. Also, Mickey shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family ties is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Hargitay happy.
Mickey Hargitay appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Mickey Hargitay will rarely put himself out too much in the process. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Mickey, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Mickey Hargitay tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Hargitay's life.
He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Mickey Hargitay to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Hargitay may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Mickey Hargitay will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Conjunct Mars/Asc.
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 4th house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus Sextile Uranus
Venus Quincunx Pluto
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