Melissa Joan Hart
in Relationships
Open and generous, Melissa Joan Hart enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Hart rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Melissa always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Melissa Joan Hart often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Hart, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Melissa Joan Hart to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Melissa's aspirations and ideals. Melissa Joan Hart also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Melissa Joan Hart cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.
Melissa Joan Hart has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets her into trouble, as Melissa takes risks on an impulse or a whim.
Hart can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Melissa Joan Hart puts up subtle walls and distances herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Hart may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Melissa Joan Hart might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge she faces.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Melissa Joan Hart enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Melissa wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Melissa is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.
Moreover, Melissa Joan Hart feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Melissa Joan Hart puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Melissa Joan Hart and she is not happy without a love partner. Hart can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
Sensitive and compassionate, Hart tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Melissa has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Melissa is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Intimate relationships are the arena in which Melissa Joan Hart explores the depths she is capable of. She could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with her partners. Hart will experience both heaven and hell in her closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Melissa Joan Hart things about herself and about love that she could not learn in any other way. Hart will often enter relationships which she realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet she cannot resist them, nonetheless. Melissa Joan Hart needs not to avoid berating herself for these "bad" choices; instead, she needs to learn what she can from them.
She may be subject to periodic changes of mood, is serious, somewhat somber, and she seems to lack confidence in herself and could have trouble giving of hers. Melissa Joan Hart tends to avoid close relationships, expecting to be disappointed if she lets anyone come too close.
Melissa Joan Hart tends to be somewhat hypocritical and artificial and may even fool herself at times. Her desires are likely to be a bit unrealistic and she may tries to hide her deception from others as well as from herself.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 5th house
Moon Quincunx Saturn
Venus in Aries
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Opposition Pluto
Venus Opposition Moon/Saturn
Venus Opposition Neptune/Asc.
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