Melanie B
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Melanie B denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Melanie B needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Melanie B also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Melanie B cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.

Melanie B has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets her into trouble, as Melanie B takes risks on impulse or whim.

Melanie B craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, she may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Melanie B to make or keep commitments, since she does not know how she will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Melanie Brown. Her domestic life may be very unstable - but Melanie Brown likes it that way.

Melanie B has a great interest in everything and everyone around her and is constantly looking for people with whom she can establish deep inner relationships. Her judgments are based on her personal feelings and she has a strong need to be with others.

Melanie B possesses a certain inner greatness and because of her inner qualities, she has the ability to influence others. People look to Melanie Brown for guidance and advice, and her leadership is easily accepted by those with whom Melanie B comes in contact.

Sensitive and sentimental, Melanie B is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Melanie Brown to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Melanie B seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Melanie B likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Melanie Brown is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Melanie B thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Intimacy does not come easily to Melanie B and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Melanie Brown does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Melanie B needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.

Her attraction to someone may come very suddenly and Melanie B loves the excitement of new love relationships. But her attachments may be less than conventional, Melanie Brown changes them quickly, and she is likely to have many affairs. She may not be very selective in her contacts.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 5th house

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Opposition Mercury/Asc.

Moon Opposition Pluto/MC

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Opposition Jupiter/Uranus