Matt Hardy
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Matt Hardy denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Matt Hardy needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Matt Hardy also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Matt Hardy a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Matt's past are especially dear to him.

Matt Hardy may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Matt Hardy tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Matt Hardy becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

Matt has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Matt Hardy has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Matt Hardy undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Matt has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to his advantage. His quick understanding of things allows Matt Hardy to see beyond ordinary limits, and he has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Matt Hardy is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Matt Hardy also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Matt Hardy very happy. Matt wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Matt Hardy may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Hardy is a natural host or diplomat.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Matt Hardy to be able to deeply respect his partner. Matt looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for him. Matt Hardy is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Square Mars

Moon Square Pluto

Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 10th house

Venus Sextile Saturn