Matt Dillon
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace-loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Matt Dillon has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Dillon is tremendously stubborn and will resist any change which requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.

Matt Dillon seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones, and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Dillon tends to cling and seek to keep others from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness, and touching is essential to Matt's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Matt Dillon substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Matt Dillon a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Matt's past are especially dear to him.

Matt Dillon may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

Dillon is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game, or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like a good time to him. In fact, Matt Dillon needs to do these things or otherwise he gets crabby.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but it may be difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Matt Dillon enjoys a partner who is dynamic and alive, someone with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Matt wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if that means instigating a fight.

For Matt Dillon, caring and affection must be expressed tangibly, and he loves giving and receiving gifts. Matt values luxury, comfort, and elegance very highly and appreciates beautiful things. He can be self-indulgent and extravagant. Being overly possessive of people he loves and of his belongings is something Matt Dillon needs to beware of.

While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Matt Dillon to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Matt becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Matt Dillon really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in Matt's closest relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Sextile Mars

Venus in Aries

Venus in 2nd house

Venus Quincunx Uranus