Mary Carey
in Relationships

Mary Carey responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Carey often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Mary Carey must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Mary's need for times of withdrawal.

Mary Carey is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Mary Carey takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.

Carey gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Mary Carey makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Mary Carey needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.

Her health should be good and her recuperative powers are strong. Mary Carey is able to express her feelings harmoniously and she considers herself wealthy either on material or spiritual planes. She is well liked and her relationships with others are congenial.

Mary Carey has a good-natured disposition and an affectionate and cordial manner. Charming, optimistic and outgoing, she is warm and friendly to everyone she meets. Carey is at peace with the world and want to share her feelings with her friends and acquaintances.

She is likely to be noted for her good looks and good taste in clothes. Mary Carey is able to attract and influence others because she is so pleasant and so sincere in her approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Carey also is strongly attached to her home and family.

In a love relationship, Mary Carey is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Mary likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Mary Carey becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Mary Carey's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Mary Carey needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Carey finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Mary Carey very happy. Mary wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Mary Carey may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Carey is a natural host or diplomat.

She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Mary Carey rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Mary is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Carey craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Mary Carey needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.

When it comes to love relationships, Carey is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Mary Carey has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Mary acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Mary Carey to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Mary becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Mary Carey really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Mary's closest relationships.

Mary Carey tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Mary frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Mary Carey also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Cancer

Moon in 11th house

Moon Conjunct Sun/Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Venus/Jupiter

Moon Conjunct Venus/Asc.

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 10th house

Venus Square Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Opposition Neptune